Polyamory, Kink, & Lifestyle Education

We foster inclusive, community-driven education on Polyamory & Kink, covering topics like negotiation, etiquette, mental health, LGBTQIA+ perspectives, and skill demonstrations. Whether you’re new or experienced, we provide a supportive space for learning and connection.

About Us

FETtalks was founded by a group of passionate friends as a community-driven initiative dedicated to educating and empowering individuals in Polyamory & Kink.

We foster inclusivity, diversity, and connection, offering engaging discussions on a wide range of topics—from 101 basics to advanced technique demonstrations, negotiation and etiquette, mental health, and LGBTQIA+ perspectives.

Whether you’re new or experienced, our welcoming space encourages learning, sharing, and growth in a supportive environment.

Upcoming Educational Sessions

FETtalks, the Pop-Up Kink-Centric Conference, is Back!

💰 Cost: $30 at the door

Join us for a day of kinky education, safety-focused courses, & community growth.

If you’re newer to the kink and BDSM scenes, this is a great space to meet folks, learn fundamentals of negotiation and safety, and explore a welcoming space.

If you’re a veteran, this is a chance to develop your presentation skills, share your experience, and help build the welcoming space we all wanted when we first joined the community.

Seats are limited, so grab your ticket fast!

We have many exciting classes for you covering topics such as:
🔹 101-style classes
🔹 Mental health & poly/kink
🔹 Negotiations & etiquette
🔹 Technique & skill demonstrations
🔹 LGBTQIA+ topics
🔹 Caregivers, littles, and critters
🔹 And much more!

Event Structure:
🗣Arrival/social hour: 11am-12pm
📚 FETtalks: 12pm-4:30pm
🎙 TED-style talks (10 minutes each): 4:30pm-6pm

Interested in presenting? After purchasing your ticket, you can apply to present either a full 40-minute presentation or a 10-minute FET-talk demo.

🎟 Register here: FETtalks x AFTERGLOW Ticket Link

Payment Methods,
💵 Cash
💳 Digital Payments: CashApp, Venmo, Zelle, or PayPal

✅ Must bring/show proof of registration at check-in
🍽 Bring food or drinks to share

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🔥 AFTERGLOW Play Party 🔥,
🕗 Time: 8:00 PM – 2:00 AM

For this special event, we’re hosting an AFTERGLOW Play Party with a unique twist—lights will not be so low, allowing for teaching opportunities throughout the night.

🔹 Vetting Required: If you’re not a vetted member of AFTERGLOW yet, join their Discord and arrange vetting beforehand.

🔗 Join here: AFTERGLOW Discord